from the beginning of time, before Beck even wrote it, he wrote it for her . . . long ago and far away, Wolfy got a letter from her friend A. in Sweden describing her fantastic night spent at a Peter Gabriel concert, A. said, "There I was, in a crowd of thousands, and Gabriel had no idea that I was there and that I am actually the One for him -- that I love him above anybody else." Loser! and so that is why she and I have been lifelong friends . . .